Tuesday, June 18, 2013

A Message For The Haters

"You're never going to be able to wait that long."
"What if you meet your husband while your elder is away?"
"What if he doesn't wait for you when you get home?"
"You're just going to distract him."
"You know the chances of this working out is like 3%"
"You shouldn't be close minded like that."
"Girlfriends are just trouble before missions."
"What if you come home and you don't want to get married?"

And my personal favorite:

"Its more likely that a missionary will turn gay than have his girlfriend wait for him."

Uhmm.. alright.

But guess what guys:



Even though you've made me doubt myself and cry myself to sleep, I don't feel any bitterness towards you. However, I do have some advice that might be helpful for you:

Mind your own business.

God's plan is different for every one and who are you to tell someone their plan. We are all just trying to align our will with God's. Our path to God is unique and only we know how to get there. So please don't judge someone else on who they choose to love and how they choose to live their life. And next time you feel like being negative: just don't. "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." You might just save a young girl who is just in love some tears.

A missionary girlfriend



  1. preach it girl



  2. YESSSSSSSSSSS. Love. This. I've totally been stalking your blog, and we are so much alike and I LOVE IT! I'm actually from Boise, Idaho, but living in Utah right now, so I freaked when I found out you went to Rexburg for BYU! :) AND I'm a convert. So it's inevitable that we should be friends. You rock! :)

  3. I love this. And I LOVE your blog! Being an MG is hard, but I think it's probably the best feeling ever! Thank you for sharing all of this! Love, another missionary girlfriend! :)

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  5. Thank you for giving the honest truth. Lately Ive been feeling down when I shouldnt be since I have so much love and support from everyone. :)

  6. My best friend was being a waiter hater yesterday and it legitimately made me depressed. Thank you for writing this.

  7. Yes! I'm a MG also and whether or not it works out that is no one's business but mine and Heavenly Father's. Thank you for writing this!